You find your external IP using winipcfg, one of various websites that'll tell you, or by Googling "how do I find my external IP" :)
Right now it appears to be 82.158.219.231
Your world's port, as you'd know if you read the manual, is specified in serverconfig.txt. You've got two options:
- leave the PORT= line blank. In this case, the world server will choose a port automatically. That's fine in some circumstances. Bad in others.
- specify a port number in that line (eg PORT=3754). This can help if you're having to deal with a complex network setup. The only thing to watch for here is that you don't choose a number that's already used by other programs.
Did I mention that you should read the manual? It's all covered in there...
http://monkeycollection.com/WorldOwnerManualv02.zip
See the section on routers in the Appendix. There's also loads of information on the forum here.
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